Decided it was time to visit dear Mom at the nursing home yesterday. When I got to her floor the nurse told me she had a cold for the past day or two and was feeling a bit tired. Sure enough, when I found her she was asleep in one of the many couches on her floor.
Tried waking her up but had no luck. She gave me a look and then decided it was time to fall asleep again. Stayed with her for half an hour or so. She was surrounded by some of the other residents on her floor. One lady was there smiling constantly while she held her "baby" (doll) in her arms. Another woman was constantly asking me if I had seen her father who was supposed to be bringing her money to buy candy. She was crying every time she asked. Others were talking to people who weren’t there and generally living in their own little words. Makes you think.
Then, it was off to visit a friend of mine who is in a local hospital. The lovely Liz (she of Dickhead) works in the same facility. Used to be called the Hamilton Psychiatric Hospital. My friend has severe paranoid schizophrenia so visiting her is always an adventure. When I found her, she was outside smoking a cigarette. I sat beside her so we could enjoy the weather. Around us were 5 or 6 other patients from the hospital. They too were definitely living in their own worlds. Like my Mom’s neighbors, they were talking to people that weren’t there and generally living in their own very personal space.
Different causes-same results. The human mind can take us to so many different directions. Quite an interesting couple of visits!